All people have different definitions for what is a successful life experience.The only reason anyone desires any particular circumstance or material item is because at the core they believe it will make them feel happier. Success is happiness. Happiness is a personal art and learning it’s skill will provide the most profound benefit out of any endeavour you undertake. Allow yourself to be guided by the following measures in order to radically improve your quality of life.
Find The Best Feeling Thought
Decide you deserve and want to be happy. There’s nothing more important than happiness, so dedicating every waking moment to your personal joy is the best venture you can launch! At any moment, we have access to a wide variety of thoughts, some feel better, some feel worse. The goal is to keep choosing the best feeling one you can find. Like a ladder, you will progressively climb into better feeling emotions on the spectrum. The more you actively choose these better feeling thoughts, the more the neural pathways and physical synapses grow within the brain. As you continue to do this those happier thoughts will become prominent, natural and easy.
Uplift Those Around You
The impact we have on people is beyond comprehension. Giving love to people has an effect that is without words. Give something positive to every person you meet and they will give equal positive things to 10 more people, who then pass it forward to 10 more! Your moment of compassion really matters, whether it be a compliment to your cashier or positive encouragement of a friend’s dreams or going out of your way to make someone feel special. In all honesty, they probably matter more than your entire work day in the scope of things. As a bonus, they also make you feel great! Everyone is looking for love and affection, be one of the blessed few that shines that onto the world!
Wake Up Happy - Set Your Day Up For Success
The first few minutes of your day are the most important. This is a unique time in which you can imprint your desires into the formless substance that makes up this world. This is the time to choose who you want to be. You can wake up tomorrow with a new life. If you can become happy early in the day, the likelihood that you will sustain it throughout the day is huge once you get the hang of it. This has the greatest effect to effort ratio out of any point of your day. This is because as your day unfolds, your thoughts will naturally stay on the track you start them on. By choosing happiness and doing anything to get yourself into a powerful high and elated feeling, the effect on your life over time will be massive.
Bring In The New
One of the easiest ways to feel better and to move your life forward is to do very different things than you’re used to. Take time in your day to do something completely unique. Go somewhere new. Eat something you are not accustomed to. Try a new activity. Take a different route. How can you grow if you don’t change into something new? Growth is the actualization of new choices. Have you noticed that a lot of times it’s doing something for the first time that you have the most fun? Make that part of your life. Change the habits of your mind by installing new ways of thinking. Think about yourself in a new way. See the world in a newfound light. Let your thinking shift into a fresher perspective that is more positively self serving. Be the new that makes YOU feel good. The future is bright.
Let Go Of Responsibilities
If the laundry doesn’t get done, hardly any catastrophes will happen. If the dishes don’t get done, things will be fine. If you can’t make it to that obligation, your world will keep turning. Let go. Your work will be fine without you for a day. Take time to soothe yourself. This whole life experience is here to thrill you and to make you happy. Choose that as your focus! Make happiness your number one priority. What you focus on, you get more of! Focus on the pleasure of life.
Put Yourself First
You are the most important person in your Universe. You are magnificence in human form. You have a tremendous light to share with this world. So treat yourself that way! Like they say before takeoff, “Secure your oxygen mask before assisting others.” The more you can give to yourself, the more you can share with others. Oprah can give everyone a car because she gave to herself enough to have that wealth spill over to others. When you love yourself, you can let that love spill out onto every person you meet! Giving to yourself will make you healthy, happy, and enthusiastic about your life. That’s why you are the most important person to give to. Don’t be shy!
There is no time like the present! Choose to be the best version of you now!